The idea of beginning again or trying again is daunting, overwhelming and disheartening. We’re creatures who find comfort in sticking to the way things are. It’s what we know. But the truth is that not everything we know works to give us our best chance at life. And when things aren’t working, we have to find a way to change them in order to give ourselves that best chance. Sometimes our relationships with other people are restricting or our relationship with ourselves is unhealthy. Sometimes our environment weighs us down or our day to day life doesn’t inspire us. Sometimes what we desperately hope will work won’t. And this is when we should tell ourselves that it’s ok to turn over a new leaf, whether it’s to plunge into the unknown or take a little dip. Because we all deserve our best chance at life. And we’re the ones who bestow that gift to ourselves. Don’t hide it away.
Every journey begins with one step. Winning gold at the Olympics, climbing up Mount Everest, and walking on the moon – they all began with one step. Whoever we see ahead of us travelling a similar path, whoever we see ahead as victors of what we want to achieve, they too started with one step. It’s not impossible for us. We might not all be carrying the same load. But all those who are prosperous and victorious have waded through their own battles. We all have the ability to begin and to do our best. We can all reach new triumphs, new heights and new lands, if we take the first step. Anywhere worth being is worth working for. What are you waiting for?
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Every new year, we set resolutions, we think about our dreams and goals and try to put them into a possible future, but we don’t always live up to those expectations. But there is a first of every month, there is a Monday to every week, there is a clean slate tomorrow, and there is most certainly this very minute. We can begin again. We can keep going. We just have to make up our minds to. Let’s not put off our dreams, goals and tasks because we cannot be bothered at that moment. Let’s not give up now because we failed yesterday. Let’s not sit idly because we don’t feel capable or enough. Our being, future, fate, are made up by our attitudes and choices every day. It might not be easy, but let’s choose to begin again.
Failure is only the opportunity to begin again. Only this time more wisely – Henry Ford
Sometimes when we need to get something done or we know we should being doing something but we’re tempting ourselves to leave it for another time, we just need to trick ourselves. By ‘tricking ourselves’, I mean to envision the minimum we would have to do in order to reach that day’s target, the minimum we would have to do to at least do something towards that target, or the minimum that would still make us feel like we’ve done something towards our goal. For example, if one of our goals was to go on a run every other day, we could tell ourselves to run for 20 minutes on the treadmill, or if we had to get some work done for next week, we could tell ourselves to do one hour’s work. Once we have managed to trick ourselves into doing the absolute minimum needed to get something done, one of three things will happen. Firstly, we’ll get that minimum done; we may plod through it reluctantly, but at least we did something and did enough to feel productive. Next, we may find that we decide to keep going; “we’re doing it now, we’ve got ourselves into the mindset and we’ve got everything out already, we might as well do some more. It will save us having to do it later and maybe tomorrow, instead of slaving away at this, we can go out and do something much more fun”. Finally, by tricking ourselves, we may decide to keep going because we are actually enjoying what we’re doing and it’s making us feel good. Sometimes one of the hardest parts about motivating ourselves is initially getting ourselves to do it. Once we’re actually doing it, we forget why it was such a chore in the first place. Let’s just start and see what happens.